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I grew up in SouthEast San Diego,Cali(619). Samoan. 28yrs young. Im blessed w/a husband & 5 children. I have a few friends but plenty of fam. Open minded to pretty much anything and everything & enjoys talkin it over. Love to Love. Loves to Laugh loud. Lives for today. Music & Poetry are my second loves. They go hand & hand, how perfect is that? What brings me here to blogspot is I love sex & everything about it. So why not share it?------> I've been interested in sex ever since I've been introduced to it. Curiousity definitely killed this cat. lol. I wasnt always so open to talk openly about it because of other people's opinions. Well Im over it. Been over it. So I decided to start a blog & although its just the beginning, Im loving it already......(mviavia@yahoo.com)

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No need to hide here. Speak freely. Ask openly. & I'll do the same.

Thursday, May 27, 2010

Anal Sex


Yes we touched a lil on this on my second post but that was mainly askin if a man is gay if he wants it alot. So women, what do you think about anal sex? I enjoy it most of the time but not always. Its something that takes time, no rushin' into this. My first time I believe it took about 35mins to actually get the dick in but that was jsut gettin it in. It took another 30-45mins to actually get things goin. And when I do have anal sex now it still takes some time to get things goin but the feelin is great. The sensation that it gives the wall thats between the pussy and the anal is undescribable. Believe it or not it makes the pussy cream as if it were in the pussy. One of those things again, that you cant knock it til you try it. If you're with someone thats not gonna take the time & work with you on this then it aint for you. That is a very tight muscle & you cant just push the dick straight through. So be careful, no need to be rippin and hurtin yourself.

Monday, May 24, 2010

Bi-Sexual


Like I've said before I have no problem w/folks and their sexuality..Personally its none of my buisness if a person chooses to be..I for one really dont consider myself to be bi-sexual but I do like to have my fun..I enjoy bringin' pleasure to my partner and if that means bringin an extra girl or two in the picture then thats whats goin down!!! Of course I get pleasure out of it to cause when I say it goes down it goes down buddy..The presence of another female while with my partner gives me a adrenaline rush..Just the softness and tenderness of the same sex is sensual and sexy to me..I dont go out and look for women nor do I sleep with any woman either..Its always something me and my partner does together..I have had a few times alone with another woman and yet the sex was great..

Tossin the Salad


Well well well...Ok I know it maybe a subject folks shy away from because it sounds or is disgusting. Have you had it done? Or have you given it? Well Ive had it done a handful of times as well as given it. Its been some years now but I can remember the feelin' and it was mind blowing. It will definitely send shivers down your spine & have your body trembling. I have quite a few friends that has had it done and they would say the same. It's a whole other feelin' that is hard to actually put into words but something you would have to experience to understand what we mean. Given it on the other hand isnt so bad either as long as the person is clean. No play play back there if your dirty. There wont be no play if your dirty & stank period. Please cleanse well.

Thursday, May 20, 2010

[readers request]-How many have you experienced a cramp right when your bouta bust your nut?


LMAO..Yes plenty of times and that shit fuckin sucks. And its always when its super good & both of you are so into it and you dont want to stop but you just cant take it anymore. For some reason mine happens alot while ridin' & for me thats the best position for me to bust quick cause Im doin the drivin. haha. But those few messed up times where Im so finna get mines then that thy just starts to tighten up & I keep goin. Then I try to adjust myself a lil w/out breakin' that good ol' rhythm I got goin but I cant take it no more so I gotta jump the hell up before I fall over. lmao. (go ahead & laugh cause I am) Yeah cramps are so not the buisness when your about to get that good ol' nut.

Spit or Swallow


Why do men get so worked up about women swallowin'? If ya'll are readin' this, do tell. I can assume it's the same reason why us women like the man to eat it,slurp it & lick it. I do honestly think the whole cummin in my mouth thing then spit'n it right back out is a lil bit nasty. haha. Yeah, I know outta all things I think this is a tad bit nasty. Either your gonna swallow it or just have him bust it around your mouth. I would choose swallow(yeah make your boo boo face,idc.lol)because Im not gonna let you bust in my mouth, then it mixes in with my saliva, then I spit it back out to drip down my chin & most likely on to my chest. Im good. Obviously I know this & thats why I would go with swallow.

Wednesday, May 19, 2010

Have you been turned out by the same sex?


Nope not I. I would say it makes me look at women in a different light. Hmm, Its sorta strange because after having my experiences I can pick up when women are hittin on me or I can tell that their interested in women. Call me crazy but its true. I found alot of people that I've known since forever to be bi-sexual or straight lesbian by bein' introduced into 3somes, or a one on one experience w/another woman. I also know quite a few men that went strictly dickly by experimentin' w/sex activities. Once again, I dont think its wrong at all just be safe in doin' so.

3somes,4somes,hell u name somes


Fun.Fun.Fun & more Fun..All I can say is be sure your ready for anything & everything. Oh and its a must that the awkwardness is left at the door when you walk into doin the damn thang. No need to be all shy for this cause its just not gonna work if thats your plan. You should've stayed at home in that case.
3somes are sweet. You get the best of both worlds unless your strictly dickly or strictly pussy. haha. but you get what im sayin, right? You have twice as many hands & thats not includin yours, an 2 extra mouths to wander around your body. AMAZING! Now imagine a 4some, WOWZERS! Hittin all your spots at once and maybe some you didnt know you had OOOWWEEE! Theres nothin' like it.
Scared about your sexuality cause you touched another women in doin so? I honestly believe if this is the only time your touchin a women I dont consider you bi. Now after your 3some/4some/some-some & your all of a sudden turned out by what the woman did to you, now thats another story. But I still dont think its wrong to be bi-sexual period.

Tuesday, May 18, 2010

*Readers Request*~Fallin for a fuck buddy?


Whoa! This topic finds me thinking about alot of folks particularly in the southeast area. There seems to be alot of this goin' on. I would say that it's alright if you both are single. It'll be dead wrong leavin' the one you love for the one you lust for. The terrible case scenerio would be if thats all that you were suppose to be & it was discussed & you or the other fall, thats all bad. You done got emotionally tied up in something that aint neva gonna happen.
Not in all cases though, sometimes folks leave someone for another and they make it work even if it did start off just as sex.
I know it happens for many reasons beyond the ones I will quickly list:
1)Sex game has went out the window
2)Attraction isn't there anymore
3)The fuck buddy blew that shit out!!
4)Or your partner fucked up & you possibly cant get over it
5)You've been wantin to sex this person since forever, got it & now sparked.lol
The list can go and on. Those were the ones to come off top of my head but feel free to list any or better yet: Have you fallin for a fuck buddy?

Golden Shower


Ok..I for one am so not a fan of this. It wouldnt be so bad if folks wasnt actually drinkin' it. NO-NO. I personally haven't experienced it for myself but I've watched a few pornos with it. Im ok with watching that shit through the tv just dont pull that shit in my presence. I've discussed it w/a few personal friends and this would have to come with an offer? lol. no lie. Say the right price then you might have a golden shower! No Im not actually offering my services, Im just sayin.

Monday, May 17, 2010

Fellas/Ladies whats bomb pussy and aight pussy?


I've been told by 'friends' of mine that all pussy aint good pussy and yes I totally agree. I found that men like fat & wet pussy. Also big clits. Is this for every guy out there? I heard the term 'pretty pussy', wtf is a pretty pussy?? Ive seen some disgusting lookin ones(pornos)but never have I said "oh damn, she got a pretty pussy!" haha. But is that right?
So whats the difference between bomb ass pussy and aight pussy? Cause some folks would also say 'its just pussy'...

Would you like to see your partner fuck another women/man?


OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOWWWWWWWWWWWEEEEEEEEE!!..Theres almost nothing hotter than seeing that happen..Just knowin they cummin on yo' shit turns me ON!! Especially when she gets the moanin & screamin.. Im like yeah, enjoy that shit while it lasts hahhaha and I'll do the same over here in my lil area watchin..I be back seat fuckin(thats what we gonna call it.lol)& demandin shit..Say his name?..You like that shit?..Bust it all on daddys shit?!!..hahaha!..Might even get up to smack some ass or get in a feel or two. This is a special treat that I like to have..You know sorta like a scoobie snack but for my sexual arousement..hahaha!..

'readers request' Ladies what part of the body do you like your partner to bust his nut on? Fellas where do you like to bust it on a lady?


--->Ok, I know alot of you might be like "nowhere but in that damn condem" but please dont go there.
For those that know me very well(as in friends/fam)you know most of my partners nuts obviously has been busted in the pussy. haha. I do like it when the nut is busted on my lips then smeered around with his dick. Oh so nice. Also between my breast then have my breasts squeezed and lathered up in it. My experience with the 'man' he loves for it to be swallowed. So that would be in the throat. lol.

'readers request' REAL TITS vs FAKE


OMFG!-------->I dont know about ya'll but I would definitely go for the real tits. From what I hear fake tits aren't that great. They dont move like real tits do and I assumed that much. Do fake tits bounce while the women is gettin fucked? Ugh that just makes me cringe at the thought. Real tits are hot in my opinion, point blank.
The lusciousness of them are like "WHOA" If you weren't blessed with the extra love then deal with it.
Mine are 100% real and thats how there gonna stay.

Sunday, May 16, 2010

69


Well I have to admit its been sometime since Ive 69'd it. Its great and all but hmm not really my thang. Im more like the you do me then I'll do you on that note or vice versa. But when 69 comes into play for me 'FIREWORKS' go off. Its that moment when your partner gets that spot then you go 'hard', PORNO STAR STATUS on that shit.
Head game done went triple platinum if you know what I mean. So I guess I gotta handle that soon, huh? Or touch base with it at least.

What, U dont eat pussy??


ALL BAD!!..Eatin pussy is an open buffet..I mean it may not get you full but It may quench your thirst. lmao! jk! It doesn't bother me if you choose not to unless of course your fuckin with me. I likes mine ate, eat it on up! What are you tryna be DJ QUIK in I DONT WANNA EAT IT! Even he know he eats pussy. I love it when I get mine ate cause boy when he comes up & gives me that wet kiss w/all the juices, EXPLOSIVE! Then he gotta go back down & swallow that up!
Do your thang though..Whatever reason why you dont just dont let it be a reason if there isnt one..If you dont eat pussy then you just dont. Dont mislead anyone. But please dont knock if you havent tried it!
No need to get upset if someone doesn't either..Maybe they ran across and ol' nasty tramp that dont cleanse well. Or maybe she just didnt taste right? Just the thought of that makes my stomach hurt. So ladies if you enjoy your pussy ate please wash well cause if you dont you can ruin it for alot of us that do!!

Saturday, May 15, 2010

Doggystyle


This has to be my favorite position of all positions. Please dont attempt to fuck a big girl like myself & dont know how to handle 'all' of me. Doggystyle is for fuckin' not makin love. A big no-no!!. Doggystyle is fuckin' AMAZING!. Your able to hit spots that you cant get in missionary style. & dont just hit it straight, Boy you better get it sideways, downways, zigzag ways all in doggystyle position. If you dont do all that then step your DOGGYSTYLE BARS UP BUDDY!!. Trust me your girl will love it. Unless of course she's not the ruff/fuckin type.
Another reason for it being my favorite position is you got all this ass in your direction, SMACK DAT SHIT, SQUEEZE THAT SHIT, HELL BITE THAT SHIT!!. Take my hair & take complete control over me from the back & in all the while I will be backin that ass up!! Doggystyle is my SHIT!.
You either love it or you dont.

Bi-Curious


To my ladies out there are you or have you ever thought of the same sex in a sexual way? I know its normal to think that an individual is cute or just flat out ugly. Dont say you haven't cause you just can't help it. I can be chillin with my homegirls on a night out and have all sorts of things to say about females. Yeah yeah its wrong but so are you telling me you dont do it? I've looked at plenty of females on the outs and say to myself or whoevers with me, look at her she is this or she is that..Or damn why she wear that, or damn look her butt its HUUUUGE!!. Well thats not at all bi-curious but have you just looked at a female and was like hmm she has some nice lips and your thoughts in a sorta speak way leave your mind. lol. You know men exactly what Im sayin? Your dick takes over your thoughts pretty much. I find some females sexually attractive and yes I have been bi-curious. I ask my man would you do fuck her? and of course the question comes right back to me. haha. So Im going to answer it truthfully. Its either a yes or a no.
To my fellas out there same question directed to you. Are you or arent you? I've had the chance to meet a few guys in my life that actually like men. But those that like women but have a lil something for a man, lets hear it.
I can imagine those of your reading this got your boo boo OMG face on. But hey I live in the real world and I know this type of stuff goes on in peoples mind. Not all but some.

*Readers request*If your givin head & then this person turns & bends over like they want they ass licked, do you do it?.lick around it. or say hell no


Wow!!..Hmmm..LOL!!..Knowing me I would prolly ruin the moment..hahaha..Cause I would flat out ask "WTF ARE YOU DOIN??"..I wouldn't do that to anybody, just get up & throw my ass in they face "unless" you're with this person since like 'forever'. But a random person, it would be HELL NO!!!

Friday, May 14, 2010

*Requested By A Reader*..If your fuck buddy passes gas during some bomb ass sex do you keep going?.What if its your first time fuckin?..What do you do


To my reader------>LMFAO!!..First off shit happens..I personally would prolly stop whatever Im doin' & start cracking the fuck up!!..That is hilarious..I can just imagine how the person would prolly react..Unless they pretended it didn't happen..haha..Ok..So if you know me, Im really a silly person, so after having me a good ol' laugh Im pretty sure we can get the shit crackin again..Unless they done let a bomber out, then Im so good..No fuckin & smellin stank at the same time..Im good off of that..

Orgasm's


Have you ever had an orgasm?..
Boy Boy have I ever...I can bust nuttys left & right but an orgasm is something special..If it wasnt Juicy already..OOOOWWWEEE..grab us something to slip & slide on cause its a big yummy mess..Im talkin @least 8oz all @ once..no lie..I keeps that for my hubbs though, thats why I say its special..No one but my hubbs has ever got that!!..Hey babe!..I had my first one about 11yrs ago..I know-I know I was young but very hip to the sex game..It came as a surprise but the sex was AMAZING as always..I bust one here & there but that doesnt mean the dick wasnt bomb..My nutts are also amazing..lol..
Everyone doesn't orgasm the same, so dont think you hadn't had one just by reading how mines is..Im just plain out JUICY..heehee..How was yours?..When?..
Orgasm much??

Do you enjoy being watched


I DO!!!..Having an audience of one or however many turns me on..Just the idea of the thoughts that are running through their minds while watching me get mine..YUMMY!!..
Alot can start by being watched..but I'll get into that on a later note..{;-).
I like it cause while your gettin sex'd down you gotta look at them sometime or another as well..Watching them getting/being horny is such a fuckin turn on..Cause you know they damn well want some..MMMHHHMMM..
I've had uninvited folks watch..It was a lil weird at first but damn if your in a public place then what you expect?..I would fuckin look too!!..lol..I've been watched giving head in a parking lot, waiting on our movie to start & I glanced on over, well let me say glanced on over & above & there was this white guy glued on us..lol..So I gave a small smirk & continued to down the dick!!..OOowwee I tell you the pussy juices was flowing(splish/splash)..Juicy was ready for some company down yonder, so you know what went down later..

Toys--->Toys--->Toys


How do you feel about sex toys?...IM ALL FOR THEM..Some might say "you don't need a toy if you got me?" UGH!.thats besides the point, not even close to it..I've had a few toys over the years & they can be of some great assistance..Ya'll that have them should know this too!..Whether you have a fuck buddy or not sex toys are great to have..From dildos to vibrators, there freakin awesome..There is quite a few I havent got my hands on yet but soon, real soon..To name a few..I would like a strap on..hahaha!..Yes I said it..lol..(topic comin soon)..I want a double sided dildo..The biggest one they have..lol..Also the curviest,haha!!..Havent been to an ADULT STORE in a hot one, at least not to shop anyways..(I've applied to one[fyi])..So I gotta do some research on the latest shit..
When I say toys can be of some great assistance I mean that by:
For instance, if you and your partner are excited about 3somes and havent yet experienced one yet, throw in a dildo..I mean they have pussys now to but umm Its not the same(at least i dont think so)..You can play sexual games w/your toys w/someone or alone..Sometimes the best sex ever can be done by your lonesome & of course your toy..

Wakin' Up By Early Morning Sex


Im not the one to usually have sex in the morning but If it goes down, IT GOES DOWN!!..I enjoy my sleep as much as I enjoy waking up to some bomb ass dick or tongue in the pussy..Don't be surprised if JUICY says CLOSED TIL LATER though..haha!..Morning sex feels different to me but in a good way..I guess my body is tryna wake the HELL UP & the pussy is like WHOA!!..I'll eventually get over it & get it on..
I say one thing though If Im wakin' up by early morning sex, its just like having me a cup of coffee..lol..Wake that ass up & wake it up good!..Please dont wake me up for a quickie cause baby over here will be highly pissed..GOOD or GREAT!..lol..

Kissing After Oral Sex


Do you do it?..Why or Why not??..
Okay heres the thing with me Im down w/the kissing thing after you eat me..Its mine, so why not?..I know that Im clean & obviously eddible..so Im all for it..I wouldnt mind kissing after a blow job either but thats the mans choice..Although my partner wouldnt do it and of course I dont blame him either..I guess its a big difference there somewhere..
A definite NO-NO for me is kissing after anal oral sex..I AM SO GOOD OFF OF THAT!!..& yet Im still clean but I refuse to do so!!!..call me weird but I'll roll with that..
Also I wouldnt mind if its the same sex involved..My main thing is if you can put your mouth down there you should be able to put your mouth up there too(except the ass!)..

Thursday, May 13, 2010

Masturbation


Do you masterbate?..Not all the time but when I do masturbate its in the company of my partner..Once in awhile I'll pet the kitty to get me a quick nut in before daddy gets home or If daddy is sleep..I do it in his company because I get off of on it by 'him' gettin off on it..I guess it heightens the sex up sometimes..Its not used each and every time we have sex but occasionally..Especially while he is hittin in doggy style I get them 2 fingers ready or 4 and get the 'twerkin' on the clit..Yeah buddy..Anything to make me cum Im all for it..
As for dudes & masturbation..If you dont have the stamina to 'fuck me'/'sex me' for more than 30mins, you betta go on ahead & handle that..Bust that first nut & come over here to momma or betta yet whoever you sexin..
Masterbation is okay with me!!

Ruff Sex


This is my favorite along side of making love..Truely truely love it..Dick me down hella ruff baby all night long..Even if I do tell ya to stop..Most of the time thats said to let ya know to do it harder but Im not scared to tell my partner what I want. But----------->before the ruff sex starts I like to give my partner the go ahead first. I mean we dont wanna start a session off wrong. Plus you dont just outright think thats how a person wants it, cause that'll just end all bad.
Whats included in your "ruff sex?" I love the ass smacking. Demanding of calling your name or whatever name you want to be called. lol. Pulling of the hair, chocking, being smacked(to a certain level)this is not a fight buddy. & Im definitely not just gonna let you hit me as hard as you want. NO NOT ME. This isn't just for my pleasure so the roles definitely has to be shared. Taking turns to be the domninant one. Oh yes baby! Tell me what you want or better yet just make me do it. Shove it down my throat. Being comfortable w/it all is what it boils down too!. Dont attempt ruff sex if you cant handle it!!!

Should you blow on everything that comes along??


Women you know exactly what Im talking about. I say HELL TO THE NO!!. Thats my opinion. Only those that 'earned it' would have had the pleasure of a blow job. haha!. NO KIDDIN!. And if you are blowing every DICK & TOM i would say please please be careful. Just like I said before "WRAP IT UP". It may not feel that great but it'll save you a lifetime of doctors visits. Saydat!

Are men labled gay or not sure of their sexuality if they wanna have anal sex?

First off I dont mind anal sex. I do mind if its asked to much of but thats not the case. In plain words I LIKE IT. I like it on a every once in a few months kinda way unless "I" request it. Now the answer to my own question: I dont think men are gay if they wanna have anal sex. But i would question their sexuality if thats all they want. Cause no way-no how are you gettin that from me on a daily. Im just sayin(w/a serious look).

Sex & Relationships..Do they go hand in hand?


I honestly don't believe you need to be in a relationship to have sex. I feel as long as your comfortable w/the individual that your having sex with than go for it. Unless of course your into one time flings. I can dig that too. Just be safe. Keep it wrapped up. No need to have you a good time and end up with a lifetime of misery by catching a disease. NO THANK YOU!!.
But I will say if you are in a relationship sex WILL have to go hand in hand. Relationships are not based on sex but its great to have a good sex life within a healthy relationship. I've been in a relationship for quite awhile and my sex life is beautiful. My partner & I are very open to speaking our minds when it comes to sex and believe me although we love eachother dearly without having sex going hand in hand with our relationship I doubt we may have lasted this long.